The Conscious
Relationship
Council:
The Conscious Relationship Council:
A Live Relationship Training For Men

Get equipped for relationship mastery, change negative patterns,

and learn how to thrive with a life partner, in 12 weeks.

Get equipped for relationship mastery, change negative patterns,

and learn how to thrive with a life partner, in 12 weeks.

Stop struggling alone. Start breaking through.

You crave a thriving, drama-free partnership­­­­ with an ideal lover – someone who’s exciting, attractive, playful, and wise – not just a couch companion…


You want to feel understood. Appreciated. 100% certain you’re with the perfect match.

Instead, you’re often frustrated, unsure, wishing they were different. Your future together used to look bright, but now it’s hard to see a way forward through the fog.


Why? Because no one showed you how to succeed in relationships.


And positive examples are rare. So you’re left flying blind, with no idea how to work the control panel.


We see this pattern again and again. We’ve lived it. And we’ve dedicated our lives to cracking the code, while helping men like you do the same.

“My biggest pain point in my life has been my intimate relationships and I felt hopeless for a long time and that maybe I would never be able to create the relationship I hoped for. With the tools and feedback I have received from this program, I no longer feel hopeless and am actively creating the love life I always dreamed of.”


– Tyler D.

In the Conscious Relationship Council, we help you dismantle romantic roadblocks and pave the way for your dream relationship.

With proven roadmaps, we’ll help you exit dead ends, find a winning path, and see serious positive changes in your love life by making a radical attitude overhaul.

 

You’ll learn a new philosophy that empowers you to craft a relationship that truly works for you, with your current partner or a future one…

 

You’ll gain practical tools + fresh skills to slice through illusions and eliminate negativity, as you shatter limiting patterns and redefine how you show up in relationships…

 

All in a live, supportive group of like-minded men who share your struggles + goals.

 

Forget the quest for the right partner – it’s time to BECOME the right partner.

 

Having a fulfilling, game-changing relationship is possible… Where you ditch repetitive cycles of drama, disappointment, and disconnection… Where you have honeymoon passion AND the deep stability of conscious love…

 

But here’s the catch: All the obstacles in your way… you are blindly co-creating them.

 

We all do this: We think our partner is the problem. We wonder if things would be better with someone else. But the source of our key complaints + judgements is hiding inside of us, wired into our minds.

 

And the truth is, we’ll drag these unwanted patterns into every relationship…

 

Until we get the right training.

Until we get outside support to step out of our own way.

“You will learn things about yourself, your partner and your romantic relationships that will change you forever, and for the better. Become who you know you can be. Turn up, get the tools and support, do the work, see real life changing results.”

 

– Teilo B.

This isn’t just another online course. It’s a LIVE 12-week journey of transformation, shoulder to shoulder with 20 other men and 2 dedicated relationship coaches.

This program is for you if…

It’s time to break the cycle, get support, and discover a new path.

Here are just some of the things you’ll learn in this program.

 

When you join the Conscious Relationship Council, you will:

Epic relationships don’t fall in your lap. They’re engineered.

Ready to unlock the next level of your romantic life?

 

Join us and fellow men on this transformative journey to mastering your relationships, and unlocking enduring love that transcends the ordinary to become extraordinary.

 

Secure your spot today.

The next CRC program will run in either the fall of 2024 or the winter of 2025. Space is limited in these live trainings. Join our waitlist below to be sure you’ll get a spot in the next program.

Satisfaction Guarantee

We are so committed that you’ll see results, that if you don’t feel like you are getting anything from the program within the first 30 days, we’ll refund 66% of your money or stop your payment plan. All that is required is you attend 100% of the sessions and complete the assignments you are given.

Your Guides

Ben Goresky

My name is Ben Goresky. I’m a men’s coach, a trained counselor, and a lifetime student of relationship work. I’m happily married to Sheleana Aiyana, a powerful writer, poet, and inspiration for women.

 

When I met Sheleana, I didn’t have the tools to last long term with her. Just at the right time, I found multiple teachers who gave me the tools to get past the power struggle phase of the relationship and find true partnership. I learned about conscious relationships, masculine embodiment, and men’s work. And I’ll be sharing those tools with you in this course.

Nick Solaczek

Nick is a Men’s coach, and an IMAGO certified couples therapist.

His work with clients focuses on the teachings of IMAGO Therapy and the principles of conscious relationship. 

 

Nick teaches the fundamental skills people need to experience breakthroughs and transformation in their relationships. He works with men, women, and couples.

He’s also in a happy, healthy relationship.

Here is what you’ll learn over 12 weeks with us:

WEEKS 1-4 • THE FOUNDATION
Understand WHAT healthy relationships look like
& learn what sustains them.

Week 1: The Basics
• “Relationship Killers” – Why Some Relationships Don’t Work
• What A Healthy Relationship Looks Like
• The 4 Phases That Every Romantic Relationship Goes Through

 

Week 2: Conscious Relationship Principles
• Conscious Relationship Foundational Principles
• How To Be A Partner Who Has Something To Give

 

Week 3: The Wheel Of Relationship
• The TWO Things That Couples Need
• Defining Safety & Aliveness
• The Wheel of Relationship

 

Week 4: Historical Context of Mom & Dad
• Exploring The Historical Context of Your Relationship With Your Parents
• The Mother & Father Wounds
• Personal Sharing

WEEKS 5-8 • THE UNDERSTANDING
Discover WHY you are the way you are in relationships.
We dig into the past, and show how it creates the present.

Week 5: Insights from Attachment Theory
• What are Attachment Styles and why are they important?
• How do these styles affect my romantic relationships?
• Going beyond Anxious/Avoidant Dance

 

Week 6: Where your ‘Not Good Enough’ story comes from
• How your childhood conditions set the stage for your adult relationships
• Explore the roots of your ‘Not Good Enough’ story
• Learn the TWO communication styles in relationship and how to work with them

 

Week 7: Discovering Your Personal Relationship Story
• Uncover your own Personal Relationship Story
• Learn what your unconscious mind is attracted to in relationships

 

Week 8: Relationship Maintenance
• Guidance on how to do relationship maintenance
• Strategies for holding space and practicing ‘clearings’ with your partner
• Learn about Mirroring & Validating

WEEKS 9-12 • THE TOOLS
Learn HOW to make the changes you want to make.
We give you the tools you need.

Week 9: Going Deeper with Dialogue
• Learn how to have safe conversations with your partner and reduce reactivity in your relationship
• Practice using the IMAGO dialogue to express frustrations and concerns

 

Week 10: Boundaries
• Identifying boundary issues in your life and romantic relationships
• Clarifying what your needs really are in a positive context

 

Week 11: Learn The DYAD Method
• Tools for creating intimacy and depth with your partner
• A guide to having difficult conversations
• The keys to doing your own Depth Work

 

Week 12: Creating Your Relationship Vision
• Creating a shared vision for the relationship you really want

Members of the council will have access to a private chat within the Evolving Man Brotherhood on the Circle app with Nick, Ben, and the council for 12 weeks.

 

The next CRC program will run in either the fall of 2024 or the winter of 2025. Space is limited in these live trainings. Join our waitlist below to be sure you’ll get a spot in the next program.

“If you’re ready for an eye opening experience that will challenge you and guide you towards a fuller more present you in relationships, this is the course for you.”


– Jason M.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I have to be in a relationship to join this program?

 

No, the focus is on learning practical tools that can be applied in your relationships and supporting you to dive deeper in your romantic relationship(s). We’re not focused on getting you into a relationship, but the material you learn in this program will benefit you in your future relationships.

What happens if I miss a call?

 

If you are unable to attend one of the calls, please notify us. We will make sure that you receive any tools, worksheets or other resources that are shared with the rest of the group. We won’t admit men to the program who are going to miss more than 3 meetings.

Will the calls be recorded?

 

No, this is a LIVE training. Due to the nature of these calls with personal sharing, we will not be recording them. This supports us in honouring the confidentiality agreement of the container.

What’s your refund policy?

 

Before the course begins, we issue refunds when requested. Once the course begins, our satisfaction guarantee prevails:

 

We are so committed that you’ll see results, that if you don’t feel like you are getting anything from the program within the first 30 days, we’ll refund 66% of your money or stop your payment plan. All that is required is you attend 100% of the sessions and complete the assignments you are given.

Is this group LGBTQ friendly?

 

Yes. Any participant that identifies as a Man is welcome to join us. Our material will apply to gay relationships just as well as it applies hetero relationships.

When are the live calls?
The next CRC program will run in either the fall of 2024 or the winter of 2025. Space is limited in these live trainings. Join our waitlist below to be sure you’ll get a spot in the next program.
I don’t like groups. Could I do 1-1 coaching instead?

 

1 on 1 coaching is powerful and useful, and, we have found that group work has a potency and magic that makes it the ultimate change-making container. Many people have had bad experiences in groups – in school, on teams, or at work – that cause us to feel unsafe in group settings. This kind of container is different. There is safety, love, and trust at the foundation of this container. You will feel the integrity. So take the leap with us.

The next CRC program will run in either the fall of 2024 or the winter of 2025. Space is limited in these live trainings. Join our waitlist below to be sure you’ll get a spot in the next program.

Still got questions? Send me a message!

 

If you’d like to hear Nick and I in conversation, check out our podcast episode from last year.

See what men are saying about

The Conscious Relationship Council

“If you’re ready for an eye opening experience that will challenge you and guide you towards a fuller more present you in relationships this is the course for you.”
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– Jason

“My biggest pain point in my life has been my intimate relationships and I felt hopeless for a long time and that maybe I would never be able to create the relationship I hoped for, with the tools and feedback I have received from this program I no longer feel hopeless and am actively creating the love life I always dreamed of.”
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– Tyler

“Even if you don’t see the value in men’s work or may think that it’s unnecessary bullshit, there’s something worthwhile here. Looking at where your values and habits originate from, and learning which behaviours and responses are related to past wounding are helpful tools for knowing yourself better. Fellowship with other men and sharing your lived experiences and challenges with each other is beneficial. Sometimes a structured environment to exploring these things is the kick in the ass you need to start focusing more of your energy on personal growth.”
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– Andrew

“If you care about the people you love in your life more than you care about being comfortable and unchallenged, sign up for this program with Ben and Nick and shock yourself into a new world of accountability, happiness, love, and growth.”

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– Joel

“I imagine if you’re exploring groups like these, you feel like you’re stuck, on an island, with no one to talk to about your relationship. Having been to therapists on a one to one basis, the CRC has provided all of the positives you get from therapy with the benefit of real, gritty, unfiltered feedback. The group setting makes sharing uncomfortable at first, but lends itself to a level of accountability you won’t find in individual settings.”

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– Brian

“You don’t need to know the details. Just commit and turn up. You will learn things about yourself, your partner and your romantic relationships that will change you forever, and for the better. Become who you know you can be. Turn up, get the tools and support, do the work, see real life changing results.”

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– Teilo

“Because most men are raised to thinking they should know all the answers and be able to fix anything. This is a safe environment to learn some better skills on how to work on your relationships and discover lots about yourself that you were not aware of, that may be holding you back from being successful in many ways.”

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– Tyler

“If your relationship matters to you then invest in it. With the help of Nick and Ben, we now have the tools to thrive.”

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– Robert

The next CRC program will run from September 10th, 2024 to November 26th, 2024. Calls take place on Tuesdays from 4-6pm PST.

The next CRC program will run in either the fall of 2024 or the winter of 2025. Space is limited in these live trainings. Join our waitlist below to be sure you’ll get a spot in the next program.

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